
WHAT I’VE BEEN READING: I See, I See. by Robert Henderson
“A book for one? A book for two? A book for different points of view!” This is a lovely book designed to be read together by two people, with each person sitting opposite each other with the book in the middle. Each page includes an image with text at the top and bottom (so that

WHAT I’VE BEEN READING: Mindwise by Nicholas Epicy
This book is powerful, and essential reading for anyone who works with people in conflict. It will challenge your assumptions about the benefits of taking another’s perspective, and help you identify the limitations of trying to do so. The book provides some very practical insight about where to focus your energy when you are trying

WHAT I’VE BEEN READING: On Looking by Alexandra Horowitz
“You missed that. Right now, you are missing the vast majority of what is happening around you. You are missing the events unfolding in your body, in the distance, and right in front of you.” With this powerful introduction, you are immediately captivated by this book. I came across this book by accident, as I

WHAT I’VE BEEN READING: Other Minds by Bertram F. Malle, Sara D. Hodges
This book is a collection of writing by scholars from disciplines including psychology, linguistics, philosophy and neuroscience, about how we try to understand what another person is thinking. It’s a book about mind reading, but not in a mystical sense! Rather it explores how ordinary people try to understand others. The book explores the age

The challenge of perspective-taking in conflict
It is generally accepted that, to successfully manage and resolve conflict, it is important to try to see things from perspectives other than our own. We are advised to “try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes” and to “look at the situation objectively”. In theory, this is good advice, because our own point

WHAT I’VE BEEN READING: The Empowerment Paradox by Ben Woodwarda D. Hodges
I’m re-posting this book review for people who might have missed the original post late last year. The book is well worth reminding everyone about! This book is about turning struggle into strength. It really connected with me as I saw very strong parallels with one of the fundamental shifts that we aim to support